be the host. not the hunter.


“You don’t need more leads. You need more meaningful conversations.”

The lightbulb moment was almost visible above his head.

I was chatting with a prospect that was having a challenging time connecting with a qualified and relevant audience..

It's a problem I see all too often.

Most businesses are drowning in leads but starving for genuine connections.

I learned this lesson the hard way myself.

Three years ago, I was obsessively focused on growing my email list. More subscribers meant more success, right?

Wrong.

My breakthrough came when I stopped chasing numbers and started inviting conversations.

And my secret weapon? My podcast.

Here’s the simple 5-step process I now use (and teach my clients):

  1. Make a list of 20 dream prospects or partners
  2. Invite them to be a guest on your podcast
  3. Make the conversation 100% about them and their expertise
  4. Record an amazing episode they’ll be proud to share
  5. Follow up afterward from a position of relationship, not as a stranger

This works because people say yes to conversations they’d never agree to if pitched as a sales call.

Think about it.

When was the last time you eagerly accepted a “15-minute discovery call” from someone you didn’t know?

But an invitation to share your expertise on a podcast?

That’s flattering. That’s valuable.

The magic happens after the recording.

You’ve just spent 30-60 minutes in deep conversation. You understand their challenges. You’ve built rapport.

Now you’re not a stranger “checking in” – you’re the host who gave them a platform.

The conversation continues naturally.

I’ve seen this transform pipelines in as little as 30 days.

All from conversations that started with “Would you like to be a guest on my podcast?”

Stop chasing more leads.

Start inviting more conversations.

Your pipeline (and your sanity) will thank you.

With gratitude,

Harry ‘Conversation Starter’ Duran

P.S. When you’re ready to transform your podcast from a content channel into a business development machine, here’s how I can help.

Harry Duran

I help heart-centered coaches and consultants amplify their authority through podcasting—without tech overwhelm—so they can attract aligned clients and grow their business effortlessly. Want a daily dose of podcasting insights and inspiration? Join 490 subscribers here 👇

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